ALRIGHT GEEKS!
Time to help a fellow out once again.
But, on a different card...
Relationship struggles.
Yeah I said it.
What's the best way to get a girlfriend that's just as geeky as you but still looks pretty nice?
I don't want this:
[spoiler](https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/4350089472/h5F5364A1/)[/spoiler]
Not sure I came to the right place to ask but, I'm using my resources. I'm getting a bit desperate, I admit @_@...
Maybe it's just cuz Prom is a few weeks away...
No I've been struggling for awhile...
HALP. PLZ. D:
inb4 immature responses.
Basically it boils down to having comfortable social skills and being an approachable nice person.
Unfortunately (in my experience anyway) it ends up being random chance and it just happens.
You'll get better advice from people in the real-world who know you properly. Go ask them.
Quote from: Unit 33 on April 15, 2014, 03:00:08 PM
inb4 immature responses.
Basically it boils down to having comfortable social skills and being an approachable nice person.
Unfortunately (in my experience anyway) it ends up being random chance and it just happens.
You'll get better advice from people in the real-world who know you properly. Go ask them.
Thanks ;)
LoL Unit.
Quote from: Unit 33 on April 15, 2014, 03:00:08 PM
inb4 immature responses.
Be yourself. Don't get desperate for love. My first and only girlfriend is geeky like me and we get along great. We've been together for over 3 years now and still have fun like it's the first month. It just kind of... happened.
Before you ask, yes she does play Battlefront on occasion. 8) She likes the KoTOR games better though, for the stories.
Quote from: Dark_Phantom on April 15, 2014, 06:20:37 PM
Before you ask, yes she does play Battlefront on occasion. 8)
You have a good one!
I think any "relationship" before 17-18 years old is a bad idea. The point of dating is to see if you should marry, at 15 it shouldn't really be a thought to have a girlfriend.
Just looking for someone to go to prom with?
Quote from: Unit 33 on April 15, 2014, 03:00:08 PM
Basically it boils down to having comfortable social skills and being an approachable nice person.
Unfortunately (in my experience anyway) it ends up being random chance and it just happens.
You'll get better advice from people in the real-world who know you properly. Go ask them.
Every place you look online will give you the same answers be yourself, be nice cool, yadda yadda. Just go and ask someone!
Well, romantic relationships, usualy looks like a complicated chess game, with unexpected moves, and cruel plans, which sometimes, may be turns in to a battle, with no mercy... So, you have to carefully make your step, according to plan "A", "B", "C" and even "Z" if you have any.
Or, just forget about you are a geeks, and try to follow your heart...
Quote from: Sereja on April 16, 2014, 08:06:26 AM
and even "Z"
It's so evil, it's diabolical, it's lemon scented :D
alright whisper as my best advice ive ever given to anyone ever in the history of my shoddy advice givings heres the best video to watch about what biologicals call "love" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlvRv3Q5930
Since I am pretty much what you seem to refer to as a "geeky" female, I feel a little obligated to post an answer, bad as it may be ^^'
Geeky girls don't always necessarily wear that title on their sleeve, so I would say the best way to find someone like that would be just to put yourself out there and get to know peoples. It probably won't take too long to find out if they're into that sort of thing or not =P
Try not to be too shallow when it comes to looks o.0 "Geeky" girls usually look a looot nicer than the picture you posted above (or most of the ones I've met do, at least xD), but don't necessarily expect supermodel-good looks either haha.
I would also be wary of getting into a relationship just for the sake of not being alone. That doesn't usually work out to well, I don't think o.o And like many people have stated before me, for better or for worse, relationships tend to happen when you least expect it (or at least that's how it was in my case haha)
Umm, yeah, that's about it haha. Hope this helped ^_^
Quote from: BVBArmy | Sizzors{snp} on April 16, 2014, 07:33:56 PM
Since I am pretty much what you seem to refer to as a "geeky" female, I feel a little obligated to post an answer, bad as it may be ^^'
Geeky girls don't always necessarily wear that title on their sleeve, so I would say the best way to find someone like that would be just to put yourself out there and get to know peoples. It probably won't take too long to find out if they're into that sort of thing or not =P
Try not to be too shallow when it comes to looks o.0 "Geeky" girls usually look a looot nicer than the picture you posted above (or most of the ones I've met do, at least xD), but don't necessarily expect supermodel-good looks either haha.
I would also be wary of getting into a relationship just for the sake of not being alone. That doesn't usually work out to well, I don't think o.o And like many people have stated before me, for better or for worse, relationships tend to happen when you least expect it (or at least that's how it was in my case haha)
Umm, yeah, that's about it haha. Hope this helped ^_^
Alright whisper. Disregard everything faye...an actual girl...has to say as step one. step two what you have to do is buy really cheap cologne. douse yourself in it. next thing to do is to pick a central american dictator (i usually go as castro) that you look like. dress up exactly like them. next go to a convention. talk to every single human being there. make it look not desperate at all or youll scare everyone away and the security(dressed as stormtroopers) will escort you out with nothing gained. eventually someone will like what you say and like what you wear at that point you are in. goodluck whisper xD
Quote from: hellish hellbird on April 16, 2014, 08:32:52 PM
Alright whisper. Disregard everything faye...an actual girl...has to say as step one. step two what you have to do is buy really cheap cologne. douse yourself in it. next thing to do is to pick a central american dictator (i usually go as castro) that you look like. dress up exactly like them. next go to a convention. talk to every single human being there. make it look not desperate at all or youll scare everyone away and the security(dressed as stormtroopers) will escort you out with nothing gained. eventually someone will like what you say and like what you wear at that point you are in. goodluck whisper xD
Dude, you know what, Whisper? Disregard everything I just said, and listen to Birdo. He knows what's up. '_'
Quote from: BVBArmy | Sizzors{snp} on April 16, 2014, 09:43:43 PM
Dude, you know what, Whisper? Disregard everything I just said, and listen to Birdo. He knows what's up. '_'
I think this means the world will end soon.
Quote from: BVBArmy | Sizzors{snp} on April 16, 2014, 09:43:43 PM
Dude, you know what, Whisper? Disregard everything I just said, and listen to Birdo. He knows what's up. '_'
exactly faye. if anyone knows what its like to be a teenage girl its me.
You know, if that did signal the end of the world, just about everyone mature enough to understand a mutual friendly fellowship between guys and ladies would be paring up before they died..
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I once heard that dating without intent of marriage is like going to the grocery store without having any money. You either leave unsatisfied, or take something that does not belong to you.
Well, to be honest i think it's all about finding the 'right' person instead of finding a 'sexy' girl.
If you are trying to find love, you really need try to get to know the person first (as a friend or at really great night)...invite her to go out or to play some games
A couple of tips i've gotten to love
-Look into her eyes (not her mouth)...it could be uncomfortable at first (because you've never done it or anything)...but you'll see that it can help.
-Listen to what she says...every line can be useful to make a comment about
-You can tease...but don't over do it...
-Complement her (thats why the lines are so useful ^^)
-Make sure there is a next time...especially if you hardly know her
-Idk if you got any social media groups like whatsapp or anything, but if its popular...keep in touch ^^
-dont be afraid to speak your mind
These are at least a couple of the stuff i usually use, works great for (really) short relationships (i haven't done the long term yet XD)
Quote from: Led on April 16, 2014, 09:48:03 PM
I think this means the world will end soon.
you think i was joking led? [spoiler](https://fbcdn-sphotos-a-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn2/t1.0-9/1554595_10201727305775689_5169908059257501371_n.jpg)[/spoiler]
Birdo, everything BUT your desk looks absolutely spotless! We've got a real gamer here! x3
Woah.,., Won't ever get that picture out of my head.